Comments on: Alone http://bluemist.animeblogger.net/archives/alone/ where shoujo and bishoujo meet Wed, 25 Nov 2009 08:48:44 +0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: Unforgiving Reality http://bluemist.animeblogger.net/archives/alone/comment-page-1/#comment-221932 Unforgiving Reality Fri, 26 Dec 2008 01:22:45 +0000 http://bluemist.animeblogger.net/?p=946#comment-221932 We live in a world where sometimes physical pain is a whole lot better than emotional pain. You know why? Because unlike physical pain, it can't be healed by simply letting time deal with it. You have to make the best of the wound that you have and heal it up by applying the right treatment. Sure there isn't a source to call "The pit of despair" and find the right therapist to talk to but it's more of a spawning from your inner self depression. I, too, deal with the pain of loneliness. It's because I don't expect people to understand me. They're all ignorant fucks. All first base judgment and then act as if they already know what they are like. Which is why my hatred for humans grow everyday. They mistake me as an insane psychopath. I ain't. I'm just misunderstood because of the shit I went through. Sadly, I'm the same as you and the only thing I'm turning to is hatred and anger. It's the only thing I look up to because no one is going to try to reach out. It's either themselves or me. Frankly, they prefer themselves. Which follow the quotes "Every man or woman for himself!" We live in a world where sometimes physical pain is a whole lot better than emotional pain. You know why? Because unlike physical pain, it can't be healed by simply letting time deal with it. You have to make the best of the wound that you have and heal it up by applying the right treatment. Sure there isn't a source to call "The pit of despair" and find the right therapist to talk to but it's more of a spawning from your inner self depression.

I, too, deal with the pain of loneliness. It's because I don't expect people to understand me. They're all ignorant fucks. All first base judgment and then act as if they already know what they are like. Which is why my hatred for humans grow everyday. They mistake me as an insane psychopath. I ain't. I'm just misunderstood because of the shit I went through.

Sadly, I'm the same as you and the only thing I'm turning to is hatred and anger. It's the only thing I look up to because no one is going to try to reach out. It's either themselves or me. Frankly, they prefer themselves. Which follow the quotes "Every man or woman for himself!"

]]> By: AnimeVocalist http://bluemist.animeblogger.net/archives/alone/comment-page-1/#comment-220446 AnimeVocalist Mon, 15 Dec 2008 06:50:39 +0000 http://bluemist.animeblogger.net/?p=946#comment-220446 I am going through a difficult time too. I used to call these two of my friends 'bros' but they are no longer my bros. It is because of the carelessly done money problems and issues... I think there's a fine line between persons even though you might consider them like your family. When I was maintaining that fine line, we were like the best friends...but we crossed that fine line and hurt our feelings and I don't think I can bring it back. I used to be very outgoing person but no longer am. Quite disappointed how this world goes but I am still not giving hope! I guess I am still young and I would learn from this experience that next time, I won't make it :) cheers AnimeVocalist I am going through a difficult time too. I used to call these two of my friends 'bros' but they are no longer my bros. It is because of the carelessly done money problems and issues… I think there's a fine line between persons even though you might consider them like your family. When I was maintaining that fine line, we were like the best friends…but we crossed that fine line and hurt our feelings and I don't think I can bring it back. I used to be very outgoing person but no longer am. Quite disappointed how this world goes but I am still not giving hope! I guess I am still young and I would learn from this experience that next time, I won't make it :)

cheers

AnimeVocalist

]]> By: DaFool http://bluemist.animeblogger.net/archives/alone/comment-page-1/#comment-219931 DaFool Tue, 09 Dec 2008 19:16:21 +0000 http://bluemist.animeblogger.net/?p=946#comment-219931 I have two outlets: travel, and hobbies. I plan to be somebody in those fields, and when you become influential, you naturally gain friends. Unless you're already 40 or 50 years old, you are not yet in the prime of your life. The twenties and early thirties are truly the shittiest years, don't let anyone tell you otherwise... if they do they usually are drunk a lot else born with a silver spoon, or are geniuses to start corporations at such a tender age. At least you've met the other online English-speaking Filipinos. I'm a 28 years old hermit and live in Quezon City and work in Makati. In case you might want to meet me you should also know I think the Philippines is a shitty country and I'm only living here because it's cheap and all other English speaking nations such as the U.S. are going to the shits. My brother is a hikikomori and NEET though not an otaku. I'm the hardcore otaku although I have a job. I realized that I'm a 'builder' and right now there's nothing to 'build' so I'm just twiddling my thumbs waiting for the collapse of civilization so I can start fresh building a new one. (the theory goes since the time of Rome that the generation that sees the rise of feminism in that culture will see the end of that culture. That's because feminism is always accompanied by sexual liberation, and if women are liberated, then men are liberated as well and would spend their energies f***ing rather than building _cool_ _shit_ like they do when there's no easy sexual opportunity. Just look at how the U.S. industrial base is collapsing. If anyone's going to found a new country or self-sustaining island I'm so there to lend my expertise. In the meantime I'm a member of the ghost nation. Don't waste your energies looking for love. No sane woman will like your current emo self. Train in your field and become really good and hopefully rich then women will flock to you. Don't believe in true love or 'soul mates' bullshit. Everyone is their own unique individual who has their own journeys in life so there's just no way you can be perfectly aligned in everything. Not to mention that with love, the current sellers market will become a buyers' market pretty soon as the economic outlook worsens. http://www.forbes.com/2006/02/11/economics-prostitution-marriage_cx_mn_money06_0214prostitution.html In a way I'd have to congratulate you, bluemist... you've fully adopted the existential mindset which prior to globalization has only existed in the minds of white men. I fully understand and respect the heterosexual white male individualist mindset now more than ever... the power to transform this 'ultimate' form of existential loneliness into transformative power that builds civilizations and creates cool stuff. In the end, it's just you, the Earth, and God. Friends, they come and go. Family, even. And women especially. So screw them all. So you just have yourself, Earth, and God. What are you gonna do? Build shit! That's right. Make some cool stuff and be good about it. The end. I have two outlets: travel, and hobbies.
I plan to be somebody in those fields, and when you become influential, you naturally gain friends.

Unless you're already 40 or 50 years old, you are not yet in the prime of your life. The twenties and early thirties are truly the shittiest years, don't let anyone tell you otherwise… if they do they usually are drunk a lot else born with a silver spoon, or are geniuses to start corporations at such a tender age.

At least you've met the other online English-speaking Filipinos. I'm a 28 years old hermit and live in Quezon City and work in Makati. In case you might want to meet me you should also know I think the Philippines is a shitty country and I'm only living here because it's cheap and all other English speaking nations such as the U.S. are going to the shits.

My brother is a hikikomori and NEET though not an otaku. I'm the hardcore otaku although I have a job. I realized that I'm a 'builder' and right now there's nothing to 'build' so I'm just twiddling my thumbs waiting for the collapse of civilization so I can start fresh building a new one. (the theory goes since the time of Rome that the generation that sees the rise of feminism in that culture will see the end of that culture. That's because feminism is always accompanied by sexual liberation, and if women are liberated, then men are liberated as well and would spend their energies f***ing rather than building _cool_ _shit_ like they do when there's no easy sexual opportunity. Just look at how the U.S. industrial base is collapsing.

If anyone's going to found a new country or self-sustaining island I'm so there to lend my expertise. In the meantime I'm a member of the ghost nation.

Don't waste your energies looking for love. No sane woman will like your current emo self. Train in your field and become really good and hopefully rich then women will flock to you. Don't believe in true love or 'soul mates' bullshit. Everyone is their own unique individual who has their own journeys in life so there's just no way you can be perfectly aligned in everything. Not to mention that with love, the current sellers market will become a buyers' market pretty soon as the economic outlook worsens.
http://www.forbes.com/2006/02/11/economics-prostitution-marriage_cx_mn_money06_0214prostitution.html

In a way I'd have to congratulate you, bluemist… you've fully adopted the existential mindset which prior to globalization has only existed in the minds of white men. I fully understand and respect the heterosexual white male individualist mindset now more than ever… the power to transform this 'ultimate' form of existential loneliness into transformative power that builds civilizations and creates cool stuff.

In the end, it's just you, the Earth, and God. Friends, they come and go. Family, even. And women especially. So screw them all. So you just have yourself, Earth, and God. What are you gonna do? Build shit! That's right. Make some cool stuff and be good about it.

The end.

]]> By: nippu_chan http://bluemist.animeblogger.net/archives/alone/comment-page-1/#comment-219907 nippu_chan Tue, 09 Dec 2008 14:01:12 +0000 http://bluemist.animeblogger.net/?p=946#comment-219907 Once you understand what loneliness feel like, you know that friends and families are priceless. So don't ever let them go. Once you understand what loneliness feel like, you know that friends and families are priceless. So don't ever let them go.

]]> By: Zeroblade http://bluemist.animeblogger.net/archives/alone/comment-page-1/#comment-219798 Zeroblade Mon, 08 Dec 2008 18:24:30 +0000 http://bluemist.animeblogger.net/?p=946#comment-219798 I'm wondering if being with friends and talking nonsense with them is really what I am; perhaps it's just an outer facade to mask my inner, much less extroverted self. Am I really this way? Or am I just lonely and isolated inside like many others? And hey if the comments above are an indication, you're not alone. I'm wondering if being with friends and talking nonsense with them is really what I am; perhaps it's just an outer facade to mask my inner, much less extroverted self. Am I really this way? Or am I just lonely and isolated inside like many others?
And hey if the comments above are an indication, you're not alone.

]]> By: Martin http://bluemist.animeblogger.net/archives/alone/comment-page-1/#comment-219790 Martin Mon, 08 Dec 2008 17:39:26 +0000 http://bluemist.animeblogger.net/?p=946#comment-219790 I think this is a common feeling - you aren't alone in feeling lonely, if that makes any sense at all. Hell, I live on my own, my social life is limited (a combination of full time employment, living in a small town and not having much money to go out and socialise) and the only people I interact with on a daily basis are my work colleagues. As long as I have my small circle of friends and stay in regular contact with my family I seem to be okay - I guess I'm not as dependent on regular social interaction as most people, although I wish I 'could get out more'. It's down to how much of an extrovert/introvert you are I guess. It's good to see you being so honest about this though - that's what a blog is for, after all - expressing your thoughts. I think this is a common feeling – you aren't alone in feeling lonely, if that makes any sense at all. Hell, I live on my own, my social life is limited (a combination of full time employment, living in a small town and not having much money to go out and socialise) and the only people I interact with on a daily basis are my work colleagues.

As long as I have my small circle of friends and stay in regular contact with my family I seem to be okay – I guess I'm not as dependent on regular social interaction as most people, although I wish I 'could get out more'. It's down to how much of an extrovert/introvert you are I guess.

It's good to see you being so honest about this though – that's what a blog is for, after all – expressing your thoughts.

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