Comments on: Ronery

By: usagijen

usagijen — Sun, 13 Apr 2008 15:51:12 +0000

I have long surrendered myself to the thought of being forever single, with the mindset "if it's meant to be that I'll eventually meet that future partner of mine, then it will happen. In the meantime, I'm just going to live my life to the fullest and continue to cherish each day, being happily single~" :3

By: Impz

Impz — Sun, 13 Apr 2008 08:12:30 +0000

It's 1/3 luck, 1/3 social networking and 1/3 chemistry. It's not like being nice and smart will garner you a girl on the spot if you do not bother to socialize and meet a girl just for you.

Being ronery is perhaps something that everyone experiences. However, different people have different tolerances. Some cope with it better and have other things to fill in that void. With that, they find happiness, maybe a greater happiness.

Find something you like to do, spend your time enriching yourself, socialize, enjoy and who knows what will happen next.

By: haderach

haderach — Sat, 12 Apr 2008 18:16:13 +0000

Valentine's day is nothing compared to new year's eve… each year, that day is a nightmare for me.
One thing that always annoys me is that even the stupid and not good looking men have a women in their life. But us "otaku" who are soo nice and smart are always alone.
Screw life, and if there is a god, "he" must be really…

By: So ronery, but I has an answer! « orz - SWISS CHEESE PORN

So ronery, but I has an answer! « orz - SWISS CHEESE PORN — Sat, 12 Apr 2008 16:35:30 +0000

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By: bluemist

bluemist — Sat, 12 Apr 2008 06:15:02 +0000

You guys speak truth, in that ronery-ness does not end when you attain this kind of love. I see it as different phases/walls/challenges in life that one has to endure. So supposing I break this wall and find that special someone, it doesn't end there, because whole new sets of walls are in your way yet again, like responsibilities, money matters, social standing etc. This cycle goes on, and that's what life is about.

I think what's important is that as you attempt to face each life challenge, is that you are happy in other aspects of life despite the loneliness in this aspect (romantic love).

By: Ronery - A rebuttal to bluemist’s case « クロス† チャネル

Ronery - A rebuttal to bluemist’s case « クロス† チャネル — Sat, 12 Apr 2008 05:15:27 +0000

[...] to bluemist's case 12 04 2008 I read bluemist's interesting article on being ronery recently. He gives more questions than perhaps his own answers. Despite this, I have some rather [...]

By: Koji Oe

Koji Oe — Sat, 12 Apr 2008 03:54:16 +0000

Love between man and a woman is overrated. There are many kinds of love out there.

The problem is everyone thinks there is someone special out there just for them or they're destined to get married or something. I don't think we're all meant to get married or have these kinds of relationships.

If this were true, then there wouldn't be as many messed up relationships, divorces and what not.

That is just my 2 cents and it really does get me angry when people are like, "Whaaa whaaa I'm ronery. No one loves me." Get a grip and do what you can right now. Not saying that is what you are doing here.